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Hot Mess Express: Day 1 of Getting My Life Together (Again)

aka… documenting my weight loss journey with brutal honesty, ADHD chaos, and zero shame I’ve seen an insane amount of GLP-1 shot hate lately, and honestly? It’s exhausting. Everyone screaming about “discipline” as if all bodies, brains, incomes, traumas, and life situations are created equal. Spoiler: they’re not. And I’ll be real — I’ve gone…

🐾 Breed Bias Isn’t Science: Understanding Pit Bulls, Responsibility, and Reality

Breed bias isn’t science — it’s fear. Pit bulls aren’t born dangerous. Any dog can be unsafe without training, socialization, and proper care. ❤️‍🩹

Bad owners create dangerous dogs — not breeds. Let’s stop blaming the dogs and start holding people accountable.

#PitbullLove #EndBreedBias #ResponsibleDogOwnership #DogFacts #BullyBreedAwareness #ScienceOverFear #DogsAreIndividuals #TrainYourDog

Fear and Dreams: Why I’m Choosing to Step Out Anyway

I want things out of life. I want to work in publishing. I want to be involved in all the bookish things I’ve dreamed about for years. But, honestly? I’m scared. My family always taught me to work hard, never borrow money, be a good person — and, quite frankly, don’t follow your dreams. Dreams…

🖤 When Self-Care Looks Like Crying in a Parking Lot and Then Reading Smut

You know what they don’t tell you about healing? Sometimes it’s ugly. Sometimes it’s not bubble baths and journaling under a weighted blanket with soft lo-fi in the background. Sometimes it’s sitting in your car in the Walmart parking lot with tears running down your face, mascara halfway to your chin, contemplating ghosting your entire…

Ignorance is Loud, but Facts are Louder. I’m feeling spicy tonight.

Alright boys and girls, I felt inspired to write a rather confrontational blog post this evening. Why? Because I got into yet another argument where—surprise, surprise—they spouted misinformation, I presented facts, we go back and forth a bit, they got offended because they didn’t have anything to back their stance up, dragged politics into it,…

🌙 ARC Review: House of Rayne by Harley Laroux 🌙

House of Rayne by Harley Laroux My rating: 5 of 5 stars First off, I’m beyond grateful to have received this ARC because… wow. Harley Laroux could not have picked a better season for this release. The spooky, gothic atmosphere wrapped me up from the beginning, and I was hooked. This is a sapphic romance…

The Book That Taught Me to Speak Up

When I was in middle school, I read Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson—and it changed me forever. This book is not just a story; it’s a lifeline. It taught me the importance of finding my voice, of speaking up, of standing my ground even when it feels impossible. Today, I walked into Barnes & Noble…

How to Survive the Imposter Syndrome Monster (Without Losing Your Mind)

Let me introduce you to a truly terrifying villain — one that sneaks up on you when you’re just trying to chase your dreams, apply for that new job, or hit “publish” on your latest blog post. Meet: The Imposter Syndrome Monster. This sneaky beast lurks in the shadows of your brain, whispering things like:“Who…

🖤 Why I Gravitate Toward Dark Romance and Horror Fiction

People always ask me the same thing when they find out how much I read:“Why that kind of stuff? Why not something lighter?” As if books filled with blood, trauma, obsessive love, deranged killers, haunted houses, and morally gray men aren’t just as valid as a sunny romcom about a cinnamon roll barista falling in…

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